Charlotte's Brush With Greatness

In any relationship it's pretty wonderful when both partners have common interests.  One of the many things Charlotte and I loved together was auto racing. Of course, we didn't get to go to nearly enough races. However, we got to see a number of major events together: Two IndyCar events (when they were known as CART), five IMSA sports car endurance events, and two Formula One races.

I always said, "Look there's so-and-so, go over and let me take your picture." Let's take a trip though the years and see all the drivers Charlotte met.  

We traveled south for the Marlboro Grand Prix of Miami at the Homestead Motorsports Complex March 15, 1998.  It was the first round of the 1998 CART season. This is Charlotte and Danny Sullivan. Sullivan would compete in 15 Formula One races in 1983 for Tyrrell and place fifth at Monaco. He would win the CART championship in 1988. He's probably best remembered for the legendary "spin and win" where he won the 1985 Indianapolis 500 for the mighty Penske Racing.  After I snapped this Charlotte came back and whispered to me, "I grabbed Danny Sullivan's butt". After that day she would never pass up an opportunity to brag about grabbing the butt of an Indy 500 winner. 

At that same event Charlotte met Mark Blundell. A brit who competed in Formula One for four seasons and won the 1992 24 Hours of Le Mans. He would finish 12th in this race driving for PacWest Racing. I think she had a bit of a crush on Mark. 

Here is Charlotte yukking it up with IndyCar Champion Jimmy Vasser. This was at the 2003 Grand Prix Americas held on September 28, 2003, on the streets of downtown Miami. Vasser won the championship in 1996 driving for Chip Ganassi Racing. Vasser would finish this race 11th.  He is now a super successful co-owner of  Vasser Sullivan Racing. Taking a dig at his former boss's ego Vasser said, "There's no 'I' in team but there is in Chip".

Some of you NASCAR fans out there may recognize Boris Said. When NASCAR has to race at road courses like Watkins Glen they hire guys like Said to drive. It's because their regular drivers don't know how to make right turns. Said has won the 24 Hours of Daytona twice, the 12 Hours of Sebring and the 24 hours of the Nurbergring in Germany. This is Charlotte and Said at Sebring, March 15, 2003. Said's BMW, running in the GT class, did not finish.

Charlotte loved all things Italian. The land, the food, the art, and Max Papis was no exception. This picture is also from the 2003 Sebring 12 Hour Race. Papis would finish 5th in the JML Team Panoz. "Mad" Max Papis drove almost everything with wheels. One year in Formula One, eleven seasons in IndyCar. He drove for many years in NASCAR Cup, Xfinity and the Truck series. He even had a fifth overall at the 24 Hours of Le Mans. A super nice guy. Charlotte was so shy when we saw him, I had to make her go over to get this picture. Afterwards she was so nervous she was shaking. I have to admit, she talked about Papis all the time and I was a little jealous.
Two of the most famous women in motorsports are Shirley "Cha Cha" Muldowney and  Lyn St James.  In the past few years women racers are no longer a novelty. Woman compete as equals. Here is Charlotte at the 2018 12 Hours of Sebring with British driver Katherine Legge. Legge has raced in a number of European series including British Formula Three, German Touring Car, and the European Le Mans Series. She has contested 39 races in IndyCar including the 2012 and 2013 Indy 500. At this race Legge placed seventh in class in an Acura NSX for Michael Shank Racing. In 2022 she drove a Porsche 911 GT3-R in IMSA for Team HardPoint.
On March 15, 2019 Sebring presented a race weekend that included a 10-hour race of the FIA World Endurance Championship on Friday with competitors from Europe along with the regular 12-hour IMSA race for American teams the next day. During the grid walk on Friday we got to see the cars from the European series up close and Charlotte got to meet AF Corse Ferrari pilot Davide Rigon.  Rigon is a skilled driver in high demand. He races all over the world in almost all endurance contests. He has driven the 24 Hours of Le Mans 8 times with his best finish in second. In addition, he also finds time to test drive for the Ferrari Formula One team.  
As I said, Charlotte loved Italians. Here she is attempting to be adopted by the AF Corse crew so she could return to Italy with them. I'm sorry I didn't get their names. None of them spoke English. They were the nicest fellows! In her Ferrari gear she could have been a team member. This would be a difficult weekend for the team placing 6th in class and 22nd overall. 
Unfortunately, I also had a difficult weekend. I had three sleepless nights because of the horrible mattress in our pop-up camper. My arthritis flared up and the pain coupled with the lack of sleep forced us to go home early. Apologies for bailing on my friend Rick who was there with us. This was the last race Charlotte and I would attend together. Five months later we would learn about her cancer diagnosis. 
This month marks two years since Charlotte crossed over.  Every race I go to I'm missing my race partner. I wanted to honor her memory in a happier way this year. Going through these pictures and putting this together was so much fun. I'm beginning to realize that the pain I feel is actually a gift. The pain of missing Charlotte is slowly being replaced by these memories that are like sweet, sweet honey.


Cargo Trailer to Camper Conversion

My friend and I dreamed up a mini-reunion of our high school pals. We planned to meet at the March 2018 Sebring 12 hour sports car race in Sebring, Florida.

At Sebring in 2018 I saw what a camper could make possible. Not only for races but also for getting more enjoyment out of life.

I started looking at campers. All types. Class A, Class B, Class C, fifth wheel trailers, travel trailers, teardrop trailers. And I couldn’t find anything that appealed to me. They all seemed so poorly made and so expensive.

So I bought this. A 2018 Mirage 6 foot by 12 foot cargo trailer. I spent six months outfitting it.

I’m looking forward to many camping adventures. The cooler winter temperatures here in Florida is the perfect time to camp. I’m already scoping out campsites in state parks and forests. I’m also looking forward to sharing those adventures with you in the future.

So until we meet again, thanks for watching.


The Thermometer

wall thermometer
My memory is fuzzy but I think my sister, Dee Dee, gave me this wall thermometer in August 2013. Her husband had passed and I was between jobs so I had time to drive from my home in Florida to Ohio to be with her and her family. That was a very painful and emotional time. Terry was a one of a kind man. A Marine, a wonderful father, a loving husband, and the smartest and funniest guy I've ever known. Definitely taken too early.

This wall thermometer belonged to my mother. Dee Dee inherited it along with most of mom's personal possessions when mom died. I have no idea why Dee Dee still had this old thing decades later. I was happy and thankful to receive it.

Earlier, in 2006, after my Aunt Babe, died her family sent my sister a box full of loose photographs. There must have been 50 to 75 pictures from the 1930s to the 1970s. Dee Dee sent them to me. Up to that point I had very few photos of my family. I was over the moon with pleasure to get this treasure chest of memories. 

In 2013, when I got back home from Terry's service, I starting looking closely at the thermometer. Turning it over in my hands. It started triggering memories.

I remembered seeing The Thermometer in some of the historic family pictures from Aunt Babe. It's one of those unexplained cosmic life events, a synchronicity, that I would be separated from the thermometer in 1980 and then be reunited with it 33 years later. The following photo essay documents the history and travels of The Thermometer (you can click each picture to get a better view). 

The first documented appearance of The Thermometer around 1961 or 1962 at our house on Dolby Drive on Columbus's south side. I would have been 4 or 5 years old. I'm holding a Casper the Friendly Ghost doll. Dad appears to be nursing a headache. When the world was still in black and white.

We are still on Dolby Drive. Must be sometime in late 1968 or early 1969. That's my mom, Bettie Jean, and my brother Brian. Mom was smoking Camel non-filters. My dad made two matching lamps from the legs of an ornate dining room table he had scavenged. I think The Thermometer moved to the left.  The world is now in living color. 

March, 1970, Rygate Drive, Reynoldsburg, Ohio. My beautiful sister with big hair. My older brother, Timothy was home on leave from serving as a paratrooper in Vietnam.  My mom and little brother. The chalk sketch on the wall above them was a profile of me done at the Cedar Point theme park in Sandusky, Ohio.

Christmas, 1971. I was 15 and spoiled like a week old banana. I think this was our Roundelay Road home in Reynoldsburg. There's another camel but not the smokeable kind.  And one of dad's lamps still peaks out frame left. 

Approximately autumn of 1973. I'm heading out to audition for a role in the movie Saturday Night Fever. This is definitely our Roundelay Road home. An electric coo coo clock? What the what? This is the last photo I have from the history of The Thermometer. 

June 2022. Here, The Thermometer is on my wall in Florida, 62 years later. It's certainly had a rich life. I'm glad it can't talk. It's true that they don't make things now like they used to because this thermometer still works just fine. It's currently 79 degrees. I think I'll to leave it to the National Weather Service in my will.  Just one of life's oddities.